Counselling Services — Swindon & Online

Taking the first step takes courage — and you don't have to do it alone. I provide a safe, confidential, non‑judgmental space where you can be truly heard. Based in Swindon, serving Cirencester, Wiltshire, and across the UK online.

How I Work — An Integrative Approach

No single approach works for every person. That's why I combine three powerful, proven frameworks — tailoring the support to you, not a one‑size‑fits‑all method.

🎯 Solution Focused Therapy

Instead of endlessly analysing the past, we focus on the future you want. We identify what's already working, build on your strengths, and create a clear, practical path forward. It's positive, goal‑oriented, and often surprisingly fast.

Key idea: You already carry the resources you need — we just help you find and use them.

🧠 Neuro‑Linguistic Programming (NLP)

NLP bridges the gap between how you think, how you feel, and how you act. It helps identify patterns of thought and behaviour that hold you back — then gives you the tools to rewrite them. It's practical, empowering, and deeply respectful of how your unique mind works.

Key idea: Your internal experience shapes your reality — change the perspective, and the experience changes too.

🔄 Transactional Analysis (TA)

TA helps you understand how you relate to yourself and others. It explains the "Parent–Adult–Child" states we all carry — and how outdated patterns from the past can still be running your life today. It brings clarity, insight, and the power to choose differently.

Key idea: You learned your way of being — and because it was learned, it can be updated, rewritten, or released.

How This Helps You

Together, these three approaches create a uniquely powerful foundation for change:

  • ✅ Solution Focused keeps us moving forward, not stuck in the past
  • ✅ NLP works at the level of thought, habit, and emotional response
  • ✅ Transactional Analysis brings insight into relationships, patterns, and life scripts
  • ✅ Person‑centred at heart — your pace, your priorities, your journey

Services I Provide

Whatever you're facing, we can work together in the way that best supports you:

👤 Individual Counselling One‑to‑one confidential space to process emotions, navigate change, and build resilience.
💑 Couples Counselling Improve communication, rebuild trust, understand patterns, and strengthen your relationship.
😰 Stress Management Practical strategies to restore balance, set boundaries, and protect your wellbeing.
🕊️ Grief & Loss Gentle support through bereavement, separation, or life transitions — there is no "right" way to grieve.
💙 Anxiety & Depression Nurturing, consistent support to manage symptoms, build hope, and find your way back to yourself.
🔄 Life Transitions Change, uncertainty, new chapters — navigating career shifts, family changes, or personal growth.

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the difference between counselling and hypnotherapy? +

Counselling focuses on talking, insight, understanding, and processing emotions — creating clarity and perspective.

Hypnotherapy works through deep relaxation and suggestion to reach subconscious patterns — it's often faster for habits, phobias, and deep‑rooted responses.

Many people benefit from combining both — talking things through while using hypnotherapy to embed new, positive ways of being. That's the unique advantage of working with me.

How long will I need to come for? +

It depends on what you're working with — and that's something we review together:

  • Focused issues / specific goals: 4–6 sessions
  • Ongoing support / deeper patterns: 8–12 sessions or more
  • Open‑ended: Some people prefer regular sessions over a longer period — that's completely fine too

There is no fixed commitment. You decide when you're ready to finish — and that can change at any time.

Is everything completely confidential? +

Yes — absolutely.

What you share stays between us. There are only very limited legal exceptions — such as serious risk of harm to yourself or others — and I would always discuss this with you first where possible.

I am bound by strict ethical codes of the NCH, AfSFH, and CNHC — confidentiality is the foundation of trust.

Do you offer in‑person and online sessions? +

Both — and both work equally well.

In‑person sessions take place in Swindon or Cirencester. Online sessions are available from anywhere in the UK — many people find they feel more relaxed in their own familiar surroundings, making the process surprisingly effective.

We can also mix and match — some in person, some online — whatever works best for you.

What happens in the free initial consultation? +

It's a chance for us to meet — with no obligation:

  • ✅ Talk about what's bringing you to counselling
  • ✅ Explain how I work and which approaches might suit you
  • ✅ Answer any questions — big or small
  • ✅ See how we feel about working together
  • ✅ Decide what happens next — or nothing at all

It usually takes about 45–60 minutes. You'll leave with clarity — and no pressure.

What if I don't know what's wrong — I just know things aren't right? +

That is actually a very common place to start — and it's more than enough.

You don't need to have it all figured out before you come. You don't need a label or a diagnosis. You just need to know that you want things to be different — and that's already a brave and important step. We can untangle it together, at your pace.

You Don't Have to Carry It Alone

Whatever you're facing — there is support, there is clarity, and there is a way forward.

📅 Book Free Consultation 📞 Call 07359 071210

In person: Swindon • Cirencester
Online: UK-wide — confidential & accessible

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